When women make men be wrong

 When women make men be wrong

When a woman has the habit of making a man be wrong it ts generally because she is looking for leverage in the relationship via emotional or energetic positioning. 

When a man is made to feel wrong there will also be some degree of him having a feeling of guilt. This is what the woman wants, to weaken him so he cannot compete with her regarding ideas, plans, and so on. She can more easily get her way this way. He often gives in because the ongoing discord is so draining. The woman counts on this happening.

With the feeling of guilt comes a certain loss of energy making him weaker than her in her eyes.

A wise man once said: ”Agree quickly with your enemy.” This strategy robs the woman of putting you on the defensive, in a weaker position.

I'm like, “yes em, i see.” or just “ok honey.” or “you might be right, only time will tell.”

*Once I met a woman on one of the tantra dating sites back in the day who travelled from Georgia to Santa Monica to meet me when I lived in Dana Point. I took a short train ride up there so we could meet. She spent the whole day regardless of the topic, making me wrong about everything.

By me remaining neutral she gave up trying to make me react and then the energy shifted and it was good between us.

Another reason is that women will often stir up trouble to see where the man is at on a given idea or subject. By making him react she makes him release energy which she can then absorb into her energy field/emotional body. Sound familiar?

I had a friend in San Diego and often when I visited he and his mate were in an argument about something. He was always made to be wrong and he would apologize to her even when there was no grounds for it. I witnessed this drama many times.

One day after one of their quarrels and her accusations, my friend went to the store and left me and the woman alone in the apartment. We were talking about their problems and I said flat out to her, “I don’t let myself fall under the spell of no woman.”

The very next day the woman is calling me to see if we can meet for lunch.

Whoever has ears let them hear.